While I can’t argue that people who like one night stands are assholes, I can certainly say that those who don’t are not all good people. In general, we don’t recommend that people play the part of an asshole in a FWB relationship because it makes no sense. If you’re a big fan of one night hookup dating, you should read this article and you’ll know what to do.
You may not enjoy this type of BBW dating at first, so you may be prejudiced against people who like one night stands, which is unfair. When you want to make friends with benefits, you will realize that this idea is wrong. So, whether or not you’re interested in this kind of hookup right now, put other people’s hobbies in perspective.
Never, never bring drugs to the person you give a one-night stand to. We have long ruled out drug addicts as potential partners for a one night hookup, because they often do things without any boundaries. They usually do some crazy things, and worse, they are likely to bring drugs into their hookups. If you’re a drug addict and you don’t want to be that kind of asshole, it’s important to remember that you don’t let your partner see anything about drugs and don’t bring up any conversation about drugs.
Alcohol isn’t nearly as harmful as drugs, but you still shouldn’t drink yourself drunk when you are on a casual hookup. On the one hand, you and your partner may agree to certain rules in advance that you won’t remember if you drink too much. Your partner, on the other hand, is still trying to make an impression on you, even though it’s just a short and temporary relationship. But if you’re drunk, you probably won’t remember him or her. Either of these situations makes you look like an asshole, so try to avoid them.
You should only talk about you hookup tonight, and not try to get into your partner’s life over his or her disapproval. When people try a one-night stand, the default is that they don’t get in each other’s lives, and if you break that rule, then you’re dishonest. Be aware of the negative consequences, sometimes even serious consequences, which you may have for both of you. There is only one reason for you to be together, and that is that you both want to pursue exciting, adventurous sex rather than a monotonous, boring relationship. As long as you figure that out, you can avoid being an asshole and eventually become a passionate, caring one-night stand lover.
The above mentioned are just a few of the things that people are prone to make mistakes. In fact, there are many other areas that deserve our attention. But, in fact, if you can remember that all you’re doing is exploring your FWB dating experience, then you’ll know how to do it without making mistakes and ultimately achieve your goal.